Don’t look at me like that—I blame Helen Mirren. I saw an article on Facebook the other day with a bunch of awesome Helen Mirren quotes, and first on the list was this gem: “At 70-years-old, if I could give my younger self one piece of advice, it would be to use the words ‘f*ck off’ much more frequently.”
 
Oh how I love this.
 
It was no small feat—and complete libration—to start giving myself permission to actually say “no” to this or that, so the idea of upgrading to “f*ck off” gives me all the feels.